25 Questions for A New Me🖋

     Hi! It's me again back to my abandoned blog, well I wasn't intend to abandon it but I've been through so many struggling to finally come back here. It's finally 2024! And 5 more days is my 24th birthday, so in my new age which is more serious I decided to make a brand new of me! This is the one of them, so enjoy it please and I hope it will inspires you too to make this decision, ❤

Question 1: When are you the most inspired, most motivated, most charged up?

-When I wake up early morning, doing my skincare & body care while listening Taylor Swift & Lana Del Rey. 

-When I do a small exercises or workouts or simply stretch my body up. 

-When I sip my coffee while reading a book with piano backsound

-Get enough sleep

-Scroll the Pinterest board or read Whispering of Anna Magz, or simply watching Instagram Stories of my favorite influencers. 

Question 2: How can you make your life more meaningful today? 

-Putting skincare & make up even I'm not going anywhere. 

-Taking a warm shower, moisturize my body & face, spritz perfumes, and go to bed early to get enough sleep

Question 3: What are your core values? 

I wanna be an elegant, classy, mindful, grace lady that embrace the balance of light and dark feminine energy. 

Question 4: What are some of the biggest things you've learned in life to date? 

I've learned such things in life as forgiveness and letting go, choose the things that I have to hold and let the rest go because I can't carry all things. Forgive even if they not say apologize to me, and don't give a damn about what people say. 

Question 5: Where are you living right now -the past, future, or present? 

I currently living my future and my present, and try to let the past go. 

Question 6: Is there something you're still holding on to? Is it time to let go? 

Yes, there's something in the pas that I'm still holding it but this year it's time to let it go. 

Question 7: Are you living your life to the fullest right now? 

Yes, I'm living it❣

Question 8: Do you love your self? Why or Why not? 

I do love myself right now because I'm worth it, I'm beautiful the way I am🩰

Question 9: How can you love your self more today? 

Because today I treat my with things I love and I decide to make her a brand new. 

Question 10: What is your inner dialogue like? 

She says, "It's okay you're doing it great today, tomorrow we can try it better, don't push yourself too hard, it must be past. Now, treat your self!"

Question 11: Who are the 5 people you spend the most time with? 

Myself, My boyfriends, My mom, I don't know, I don't have many friends. 

Question 12: Are these people enabling you or holding you back? 

They of course enabling me but sometimes they warn me about bad things that I didn't know what it is before in weird way. 

Question 13: What are you passionate about, and what inspires you the most? 

I love self improvement things, I love independent beautiful lady with classy outfits. I love fashion & beauty. I love aesthetic cafe. 

Question 14: What is your life like today, are you living the life of your dreams? 

Not yet, but for my 15 years old self this is the life she dreamed of. But I love my life today. 

Question 15: How would you like to be remembered? 

I'd like to be remembered as a beautiful lady not just the appearance but the heart and mind. A lady that hold her dignity with grace & elegance, and speaking or doing things mindfully. I'd like to be remembered as a lovely heartwarming wife and a fun mom. 

Question 16: What does your ideal self look like? What does it means to be your highest self? 

My ideal highest self is like to be a woman that always grateful for everything God gave her. No insecurity but inspired by other women, Inspired & Inspiring. Fix other woman's crown because we are all Queens. To be a high value elegant & classy woman. 

Question 17: What would you want to experience in your life if time and money weren't an issue? 

I would travel around the world with my husband, visit every country in the world and live peacefully in a small village in our not so big house but comfortable, spending the day with reading books, tea & coffee, cooking or baking, live a slow living life and enjoy every moments. 

Question 18: If you had one year to live, what would you do? 

I would make unforgettable memories full of love & joy as much as I can with my husband (my current boyfriend) 

Question 19: What good habits do you want to cultivate? 

-Go to bed and get enough sleep and wake up early

-Eat more whole foods with nutrition and drink more water

-Less stress, don't overthink about anything! 

-Spending money mindfully and saving it. 

-Speak more softly and move gracefully. 

-Read more books because my mind needs its food. 

-More pray & close to God because only Him who's gonna save & protect me. 

Question 20: What type of lifestyle would you like to live in the next 5 years? 

Well, I wanna be such a Birkin mom or Trophy wife that financially stable. Had a coffee shop or boutique or rent some apartments, and of course live a slow living life. 

Question 21: How do you define financial success? How much money would you like to make in the future? 

My definition of financial success when you aren't overthink about what would you eat tomorrow and paying the rest of bills. I'd like to make at least 15-20 million rupiah per month of my own, the more the greater. 

Question 22: What age do you want to retire? If at all? 

I want to retire and had financially free at 40 or 45, which is about 15-20 years later. 

Question 23: How hard are you willing to work to get what you want? 

Well, it should be as hard as I can but we need a teamwork with your partner and lifestyle should be adjusted to income. 

Question 24: What short-term losses are you willing to accept to reap amazing future gains? 

It's okay to work as hard as you can when you are young and enjoy everything you get & save when you are old. 

Question 25: What is your risk threshold & how you can avoid playing things safe/conservatively?

Well, my risk threshold is so low and I always playing things safe currently 😭

That's all my answer for 25 questions for a new me, now you can try to make it too, girls.. 💋